It's happened to most of us. We only have a certain amount of extra time/energy/health to give to a certain ministry, but we have more than one call. Maybe there are 3, 4, or 5 different ministries - all good - that say they need us. We feel connected to each of them and each of them mean something to our hearts, yet we can't do them all. What do we do? Which ones do we say "no" to?
1Co 14:33 For God is not the author of confusion, but of peace, as in all churches of the saints. All these choices certain don't bring peace but turmoil and confusion. How do we resolve this? How do we find God's PERFECT will for our ministry and time?
1. Most obvious of course, is to bathe your decision in prayer, and wait for God's answer.Jas 1:5 If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him.Rom 12:1-2 I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service. And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God. Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.(Phil 4:6-7)I'm sure the apostle Paul often felt the same way, feeling the tug of many churches he began calling him back, wanting him, needing him. Yet, he could only be in one place at one time. This leads to the second thought:
2. Write down helpful instuctions when you can't be thereWhat did Paul do when he couldn't visit the Corinthians again? He wrote them a letter with guidelines advising them wat to do and how to conduct themselves. In this, God used maybe more mightilly than if Paul had personally taken a trip because through His letter we have II Corinthians.
3. Trust the Spirit to do His jobThankfully, God knows our weakness of discernment despite our good intentions and empowers the Holy Spirit to stop us from wrong decisions when they are bathed in prayer.
Paul had planned to Asia and minister there, but Scripture says,
Now when they had gone through Phrygia and the region of Galatia, they were forbidden by the Holy Spirit to preach the word in Asia. After they had come to Mysia, they tried to go into Bithynia, but the Spirit did not permit them. (Acts 16:6-7)Finally, has God given you a long term goal or vision for your calling or ministry? If so, humanly speaking, the most obvious choice would be the ministry that will most strongly further that goal, or equip you to fill that goal.
God has a place for each of us to serve, and when we serve in places we ought not be, while God will bless it (He works all things for good -Rom 8:28), we may lose out on the particular blessing He had for us where we should have been, and whoever was supposed to minister where we are currently is missing out on that particular blessing because we are there. Therefore, this is a pressing question of utmost importance to Christians.
4. Know that a good master always gave their servant/slave directionIt would be silly for a master to have a slave and never let the slave know how they were supposed to serve. I take heart is knowing the Bible plainly states that we are Christ's servants, and also throughout both the Old and New Testaments, God teaches His people how to be good and fair masters. A good master will let his servant know what he/she is supposed to do. Therefore, we can serve Him in all confidence.
I give each of you permission to remind me to these concepts next time I struggle with this very issue!! ;)
How I praise God that we can lean on Him when the world seems to be leaning on us!!! I love you O Lord my strength!!